Why Clarity is Important?

Question: Elena, how exactly Runes bring me to clarity and why I need clarity, when I think I already know whats going on in my life?


We think freedom is absence of responsibilities, and when we have a lot going on in our life, we sometimes feel overwhelmed, unsure what’s going on, or stuck. What if I tell you that freedom is not being free from responsibilities, but it is clarity about your situation. When there are difficulties, but you are clear about what actually going on, you feel free. And you actually can deal with difficulties, can deal with situation without falling apart. So, if this is that easy then why people not seeking clarity? Because to get to clarity one needs to let go of illusions, and disillusionment is always painful, people avoid pain, that’s it, they feel that they already struggle so much, why more? But letting go of illusions is like taking out inflamed wisdom tooth, it’s scary, painful, but when you do it, it feels like freedom, finally! 

I will tell you how RUNES can help to get you free. Runes bring clarity. For example, we tell ourselves the same story about our relationship, life, dealings with some people or work situation, past, present, we have stories about everything and wholeheartedly believe in them. We think one thing, and feel the other, think all is ok, and feel not so ok. So day after day and sometimes year after year we live this contrast between what we think and what we feel. It takes lots of energy to keep some kind of equilibrium to keep this dichotomy going: we start to doubt ourselves, feel unsure what to do and how to proceed forward. Here where RUNES will get us the correct energies present in a situation. Not what you THINK, not what other person THINKS, not what you want or they want you to THINK, but what actually IS. 

That WHAT IS might be painful, WHAT IS is clarity. And now, as you got some clarity about the situation, now you can actually start dealing with it. Before that you were avoiding it, now you are dealing with it. Why dealing with situation is better then avoiding? Because by dealing with it you feel empowered, you feel you can make choices, you feel there is a movement in your life, while if you are avoiding, you are just postponing dealing with situation, just prolonging the uncertainty, un-ease, overwhelm. You are loosing TIME.

RUNES will give us energetic imprint at this moment of the situation, and then we, me and you together, will de-code it in more details, if needed. I might ask you some questions to clarify what exactly RUNES are pointing us to, I am not a fortune teller, not medium, not even a psychic. I am a very sensitive, I have very expanded mind, it happens that I have a connection with ancient runic energies that give me a hint of what actually going on in this very situation, giving me what kind of energies are present. And I know I can trust that. 

These shorter sessions I do on a market are actually enough to look into the situation and to get clarity.  It may not be enough to talk about it leisurely for sometime, when I tell you similar story from my life, so you feel that you are not alone, maybe it will be not enough time to go over other questions, and they can all be related, but I suggest you get a little clarity and then you go home and reflect on that piece, you become like a scientist and study yourself, your life, with this new information, you see how it actually start moving things in your life, and you get used to a little more truth. Then next week you come back on a market and we explore further, or you meet with me in Monterey, or online. and we go over all your questions, or maybe this will be enough for you for now, and you come back in half a year, or never. I know for sure that your life will change and it will do good for you, might take time, or even not that long.

Please read my website: https://www.ElenaNezhinsky.com/. Its important for me that you know me before we meet. There is plenty of information on website: the format of work, prices, even my resume, hundreds of testimonials, some writings, photos from some workshops I led before. When you explore my website you will feel more at ease with me, and then we meet, on a market or one on one, in person, or online, it will be good either way.  

Sing Your own Song!

By Elena Nezhinsky • April 12, 2026
We all have our unique tone, unique vibration, the unique song to sing in this lifetime. Please do not take on someone else's song, there is no song better then your own, truly. You know it, but your vocal cords are so tight from trying to sing the song that is not yours, that nothing comes out, and you are silently listening to others who sing theirs, who are fully living themselves, while you are hiding, unfulfilled, frustrated, secretly bitter, uninspired, and unhappy. Find a courage to sing your own! The world needs to hear it!
A circular diagram illustrating the Ten Bulls of Zen, showing ten stages of spiritual progression labeled 1-10.

Spiritual Journey ends on a town's market, thats right!

April 8, 2026
In these very chaotic and crazy times, in which we happened to live, I am opening myself in all kinds of ways to help people to find out the answers to their questions to come into inner balance, and perhaps even harmony in themselves. After decades of my own inner work, years of hard-core meditation, deep spiritual revelations, and work in the field of coaching, I now open to work in a different way, on a town market, so I can help people from diverse walks of life. In classical Zen meditation text "10 Bulls", or Ten Ox-herding pictures, the journey of the adept goes through different stages of development, and ends on a market. Not in a complete dissolution of the mind and expansion of Consciousness, no, all this happens in the preceding stage. The last stage of the spiritual path is where one finds himself on a market, right in the middle of the town's bazaar! Yes, in modern times it can be Internet or the office in town, but in my story I arrived to a town's market, 100% classical Zen! :)

Listen to the feeble voice inside

March 26, 2026
If your spiritual search does not lead to clarity how this illusion operate and you still need to listen to the information channels of the System what you have to do in times of chaos, you are fooling yourself, and if you also assumed a role of a teacher or any kind of authority people follow, then you fool others as well. People, don’t be fools and don’t follow fools. You only will know with your heart, the feeble voice, the feeble feeling straight from there. If anything, train yourself through these times to listen to that feeble sign for you to recognize, never disregard it. As soon as you notice, get quite, listen. Get curious about it, inquire, ask about it, ask to show you more, do not resist, soften, submit, listen. It is very important you get in touch with that in an intimate way, you and feebleness, get closer. ✨✨✨❤️
Two bright pink, heart-shaped bleeding heart flowers hanging from a slender stem against a soft, dark background.

To be available for lovemaking to my own heart

March 1, 2026
She spoke to me softly in the recorded message, I could hear the music of her presence in my room. I tuned in to my own presence with precision that is not always available. She was telling me how helpful was my letter I wrote her a day before at night, how she felt cared, understood and seen in her inquiry. Her voice was like a sound of the brook on a backyard of my old house I could listen to it for hours, sitting still, hypnotised by the rhythm and melody, and most importantly, this subtle vibration of love. Her message was only couple of minutes, but I was taken on a journey of the heart unexpectedly when my whole being suddenly trembled, and I wept uncontrollably. I noticed how her words were landing on the invisible shield that appeared right before the word could dive into my heart. The shield was constructing itself in a matter of split second and was becoming a catching net for lovingkindness and gratitude. Her voice, full of respect, appreciation and warmth was bouncing off this invisible resistance line where the heart contracts just enough not to allow love to enter. The love that is so natural, innocent and true was held at the door with a sign: “No trespassing”. But with the heart’s yearning for truth and authenticity the body ripped webs of resistance with a spontaneous cry. I am back to listening. As suddenly as this storm started, it had passed. I sit in softness of my own being, in complete acceptance. I just re-discovered again that listening without resistance is love. As thinking mind is able to give up holding the fort, and as it opens all the unexplored, unavailable, untouched, un-nurtured spaces, her voice and her recognition softly asks me to be available for lovemaking to my own heart.