CONSULTATIONS ON ANY,
EVEN THE MOST COMPLEX LIFE SITUATIONS
Sometimes we already know all the facts, yet still cannot see clearly.
A relationship becomes confusing. A decision feels tangled.
A life transition refuses to resolve itself logically.
People often come to me not because they need more information,
but because something about the situation no longer makes sense to them.
In my work, I use Runic Diagnostics together with grounded conversation and practical guidance
to explore the deeper dynamics shaping a situation.
Very often, once the situation becomes clearer, people simply relax.
And from there, the next step becomes much easier to see.
ABOUT THIS WORK
The runes function almost like symbolic mirrors.
They help reveal hidden dynamics, internal contradictions,
and deeper movements unfolding beneath the surface of a situation.
But the real work is always human: honest conversation,
direct perception, and seeing more clearly what is actually happening.
Sometimes people leave with clarity.
Sometimes with a practical next step.
Sometimes simply feeling less lost inside their own life.
HOW WE CAN WORK TOGETHER
Personal sessions
in Monterey, CA or online
Clarity Session — $220 ( 2 hours )
Private sessions are currently limited to two per week
By donations
Pacific Grove Farmers Market, on Mondays 3-7pm
Carmel Valley Farmers Market on Sundays 10am-2pm
Seaside Farmers Market on Thursdays 4-8pm
There is no suggested or minimum donation amount.
Pay what you feel is right for you. If you can, pay forward for someone who can't.
I do events!
If you are planning a gathering and feel this work may be a good fit,
feel free to reach out.
I can bring Purple Tent setup or use your setting.
Contact me on Telegram: @ElenaNezhinsky
By email: CompleteHumanity@gmail.com
Social Media: look for buttons at the bottom of this page
Communicating with Elena always feels like contact with someone genuinely unusual and deeply interesting.
There is a sense of inner groundedness, lightness, and openness in the way she relates to people. At the same time, she is not afraid to speak honestly about herself, about you, and about the situation itself.
What makes this especially unique is that somehow you can laugh and reflect deeply at the same time. Her insight often feels like a very precise recognition of the true essence of a situation.
Elena works beautifully with the Runes as a tool for clarity and deep diagnostics. Through them, she helps bring into awareness things that are often hidden or difficult to fully see on our own.
If you come to Elena with a sincere question, you will most likely leave with greater clarity, understanding, and a feeling that something important became visible. 🙏
Boris E. Zelenberg, Yoga Teacher, Retreat Leader, NYC
I personally had the pleasure of working with Elena, and she is a truly warm and genuine human being. She creates a space where you immediately feel comfortable sharing openly, and she listens with great attention and presence.
After our session, I felt energized, and several important things became much clearer to me through the work with the Runes. It was my first experience with this kind of process, and I found it genuinely fascinating.
What stood out most was how naturally the insight unfolded during the session and how accurately it reflected what I was experiencing internally. I would highly recommend this experience to anyone going through important life questions, transitions, or periods of uncertainty and seeking greater clarity and understanding.
Thank you, Elena — I’m very glad we met.
Semen L., Construction Business Owner, San Diego, CA
'OH MY F-NG GOD!! This is the most real, raw, wild, truthful, funny book on awakening and enlightenment I have ever read. It could easily be called 'welcome to being human'. Elena brings the spiritual search into the realm of being human in a way that no one else could. I deeply and highly recommend this easy to read, easy to love, easy to understand jewel to anyone seeking themselves.
~Shanti Zimmermann, Emotional Clarity Mentor, Switzerland
“I sat down with Elena at the Carmel Valley market expecting an interesting conversation and walked away with a level of clarity I honestly didn’t expect. She has a rare ability to listen deeply and reflect things back with directness, humor, and compassion. Our session helped me reconnect with myself in a way that felt both grounding and freeing.”
by Carmel Valley client
After the Conversation
"This was pure, real and true" ~ C
"My life just changed on a dime..." ~ D
"It's worth so much more than I imagined" ~ J
"Elena pointed out what was at the core" ~ R
"A little bit scary, but truly amazing and freeing" ~ M
"A couple of sticky issues dissolved almost instantly" ~ S
"She connected and she listened with all her being" ~ P
"It was relaxing, enjoyable, and actually a lot of fun" ~ J
"This happened so organically and it feels so right" ~ SF
"I feel pretty speechless about our session" ~ A
"Elena, does not waste words or time." ~ D
"Magic is probably the best word for it." ~ S
"profound effects are so grounding!" ~ JH
"Just feels so good to be free!" ~ A
Adventures, Reflections & Human Observations
I have a strange relationship with time. People often say things like: "Good morning." "Good night." "Long time no see." Somewhere inside, those things never carried much weight for me. Even as a child, I remember having a difficult time adapting to formal social greetings. It wasn't rebellion. I wasn't trying to be difficult. I simply didn't understand why so much attention was being given to the doorway when we could already be inside the house. Years later, while studying Runic Diagnostics with rune master in Russia, I noticed the same thing. We worked together every day for months. Each morning he would begin with "Good morning", and it took me a while to adapt to that ritual. I simply did not experience our interaction as something that had stopped. Yesterday we were discussing runes, life, dreams, symbols, and human beings. Today we were discussing the same things. For me it felt like one continuous conversation. The same thing happens when I reconnect with people after years apart. Someone will say: "Wow, it's been ten years." And of course I know it has been ten years, but internally it often feels more like: "Ah, there you are. Anyway, where were we?" The conversation continues. The relationship continues. Life moves on. The calendar feels less important than whatever is actually alive between people. Over the years I have realized that this is also how I work with people. When someone sits down with me for a consultation, I am usually not very interested in introductions, roles, titles, or credentials. Those things have their place, but my attention naturally moves toward the person, toward what is actually happening, toward the living reality beneath the story. Sometimes after only ten minutes of conversation, people begin speaking about things they have not spoken about with anyone for years. Perhaps because I do not experience them as strangers for very long. Suddenly two human beings are talking about something real. This immediacy has become a framework for much of my life. It is probably why I enjoy the farmers markets and coffee shops as places for my work with people. It is probably why I can reconnect with someone after years and feel as though we are continuing a conversation that simply paused for a while. And perhaps that is why "long time no see" has never felt quite accurate to me. The conversation was still there waiting patiently for us to continue.
Real, down to earth, simple changes matters as much as huge transformative experiences. Sometimes people just need a real conversation, a little clarity, a little perspective, and permission to relax out of the compressed version of themselves for a moment. These are actual messages I received in the last two days after sessions: “After our conversation I relaxed more.” “I sleep better.” “Kуча позитивных эмоций. Спасибо вам большое!” ("Tons of positive emotions, thank you so much!") “You inspired my daughter to continue studying!” “Elena, because of our talk, it helped me stay strong and not text him yesterday!” “You see the highest potential of the person and show it to us in the most positive way.” Honestly, these full-on hay testimonials 🙂 make me smile because underneath all the mystical language, runes, symbols, psychology, and strange Purple Tent atmosphere, what people seem to experience most is simple human relief. And I think people are much more tired, emotionally compressed, and overstimulated than we fully realize. Sometimes a real conversation changes the direction of a whole day, or even a life.
Life.... Less than a year ago this man was an executive in a company. Now he is building his solar consulting business at local farmers markets. Meanwhile I somehow ended up on a market too, talking with people about life situations, confusion, relationships, direction, and human existence. We started our market adventures around the same time. There is something beautiful about seeing people reinvent themselves in public instead of quietly giving up on life. Farmers markets are not only vegetables and handmade soap. Sometimes they are second beginnings.
I used to think I was a bit anti-social. I loved being alone, solitude was my way of life. But looking back, I think a lot of it was simply sensitivity without enough grounding. I withdrew for many years into inner worlds, spirituality, observation. The deep depression in the past couple of years completely changed me. I gave up all the defenses because I had no choice. And at this point in my life, I feel more human than ever. Not because I became less sensitive. It feels as if I got a center of gravity that contains and directs that sensitivity where it belongs: to feel in the immediacy of the moment and be useful with my sensitivity to another human being. Now I enjoy people. I enjoy real conversations and simple human contact. Just sitting with another while life untangles a little for them is a gift.
Vicissitudes of life made me much more human. Not through spirituality, but through shock, disillusionment, grief, loss of direction, loss of spark, and slowly finding my way back into life again. After going through certain things, it becomes much harder to divide people into categories like conscious/unconscious, awakened/asleep, evolved/not evolved. Life can break anyone. And people can also come back even from very dark places. I think this is part of why I ended up at local markets open to anybody who feels drawn to come and talk. Not because I have everything figured out. Maybe almost the opposite. Something softened after going through enough reality. Now when people sit across from me confused, looping, grieving, ashamed, lost or unable to see clearly, I don’t feel above them. I simply understand what it means to be human. This made life feel more real and more meaningful than many grand ideas ever did.
Years ago I was sitting in retreat circles, spiritual gatherings, speaking to groups, talking for hours about consciousness, awakening, transformation. Now I sit under a purple tent at the Farmers Market with a sign saying “Psychic Life Coach” And honestly… nothing actually changed that much. A person sits down. Life is tangled. Runes hit the table. Something becomes visible. The fog breaks a little. What changed is that the work became immediate. The Runic instrument uncovers what's going on instantly. Not trying to wake up people. No spiritual theater. No pretending we know everything. More direct human contact. Someone comes confused, uncertain, heartbroken, stuck, overwhelmed. We look together. Something in them relaxes. And somehow this strange little purple tent became one of the most human and meaningful spaces I ever created. What I see is that clarity, presence, and honest human connection matter more than anything. And that’s enough.
Runes are much older than tarot, dating to the 2nd century CE in Norse and Germanic traditions, while tarot appeared in the 15th century in Europe as playing cards. Runes: Emerging around 200 CE, more then 2000-300 years old, these symbols were used by ancient Germanic tribes for writing, magic, and divination, with the Elder Futhark as the oldest system. Tarot: Starting in the 1400s as playing cards, tarot became a divination tool by the 18th century, integrating esoteric traditions like Kabbalah and astrology. From my own experience with Runes I will add that Runes show us ENERGIES present in a situation. Also we can affect Reality with the energies of Runes while we are looking at the situation. I am not a Tarot practitioner, I had a few readings myself, where I was given only the INFORMATION. There is no energy involved in Tarot reading, unless the practitioner is deeply steeped in Kabbala, which is rare. With Runes anyone can access the energies of Runes and affect Reality with it, this is why people need to be careful, if they are unaware what they are doing, they might move situation into opposite direction they initially intended. While as a divination tool Tarot is a good instrument in right hands, Runes in right hands can affect the Reality right at the time of the diagnostic. When I work with Runes , I am looking at the ENERGIES present in the situation, so we know what we are dealing with without illusions. I model possibilities, explore available options in this situation, and guide people how to move forward in the best way possible.
Usually I write articles myself, but I came across this piece on Youtube in a video I stumbled upon, I felt it is very important to post for everybody. It resonated so strongly in me that I transcribed, translated from Russian and will post in both languages. The video claimed that these words were from Edgar Cayce , clairvoyant healer and psychic (1877–1945), but I am not sure and have no interest to check. The words are TRUTH that resonates in me, and thats what matters, this is why I am posting it here. Take the time to go through a few lines at a time. ********* Your Spirit is not your Soul, and confusion between them is the main reason most people remain trapped in an aimless existence, never touching their true divine spark. Spirit is the direct breath of the Creator, a powerful impersonal life force sustaining the Universe. The Soul is the individual record of every thought, action, and desire you have ever expressed throughout vast time. One is the engine of life, the other is the driver who must ultimately answer for every turn on this road. Understanding this boundary is the only way to stop reacting to the world and begin fulfilling the mission for which you were called into existence. Most people live and die without realizing the threefold mystery operating in a two-dimensional reality. Tell me, do you feel like a passenger in your own life? Or do you truly know the Essence inhabiting your flesh? The architecture of a human being is not a vague unified substance. It is a precise trinity: body, mind, and Soul, supported by Spirit. To understand the difference between Soul and Spirit, one must return to the origin of consciousness itself. Spirit is the power of God. It is primordial energy. Light preceding all form, and the flow of life moving through every atom of creation. It is universal, unchanging, and indestructible. It has no personality, no memory, no destiny. It simply is. Spirit is the force you breathe. It is the electricity igniting your synapses. It is the divine substance connecting you to the source of all existence. Without Spirit, the physical body is merely clay, and the Soul is a shadow without light. It is the fuel of the cosmos. It belongs to God. The Soul, however, is a separate creation. It is the gift of individuality, given so that a part of the divine could become a companion to the whole. When Spirit entered form and space, the Soul was created as the instrument of self-awareness. Unlike Spirit, the collective ocean of force, the Soul is a drop of that ocean with its own vessel. It is the “I am” within “I am.” The Soul is the only part of a human being possessing free will. It is the seat of subconsciousness, the storage of every experience, and the Essence that remains when the body returns to earth and Spirit to its source. The Soul is not static. It is an evolving record of how you have used the power of Spirit. It is your true Self. Imagine the connection between a hand, a glove, and the impulse of movement. The physical body is the glove—temporary and limited. The Soul is the hand inhabiting the glove, giving it form and direction. Spirit is the vital impulse, the neural signal enabling movement itself. The hand can exist without the glove, but the glove is useless without the hand. And more importantly, the signal—Spirit—is what makes movement possible. Yet the signal does not care whether the hand forms a fist or opens in peace. That choice belongs entirely to the Soul. This is the fundamental tension of human existence. You are the Soul using a portion of divine Spirit to animate a physical vessel. Spirit provides life. Soul provides purpose. The Soul was created in the beginning. It does not begin at physical conception and does not end at physical death. It is an eternal traveler. In its original state, the Soul existed in perfect harmony with Spirit, aligned with divine will. But through free will, the Soul began to seek its own path, entering the material world to experience embodiment and the illusion of separation. This was not an error, but it became a trap when the Soul began to identify more with the body it inhabited than with the Spirit that sustained it. The Soul became entangled in the consequences of its own choices and built a wall of ego and desire, obscuring its divine origin. That wall is what we call personality. Personality is the mask the Soul wears in a single lifetime, shaped by environment, genetics, and circumstances of birth. But the Soul is the actor behind the mask, and Spirit is the light of the theatre itself. Most people mistake the mask for the actor and the theatre for the entire world. They believe Spirit and Soul are the same, leading to the illusion that simply being alive is the same as being spiritual. This is a profound misunderstanding. To be alive is a gift of Spirit, but to be spiritual is the conscious work of the Soul. Spirit flows equally through saint and sinner, just as the sun shines on the just and unjust. Spirit does not judge, does not learn, and does not change. The Soul must learn. The Soul must judge itself. The Soul must evolve until it returns to unity with Spirit. The Soul is a record. This record is not written in ink or stored in the physical brain. It is engraved into the very fabric of spiritual substance surrounding existence. Every thought, every word, every action is vibration. These vibrations do not disappear into nothing. They are captured by the Soul as a permanent energetic pattern. While Spirit remains untouched by the material world, the Soul carries the weight of its own history. When the Soul enters a body, it brings this record with it, often manifesting as talents, fears, or tendencies without visible origin in this life. This is the blueprint. The Soul builds the body. Spirit is the architect’s force, but the Soul is the architect’s plan. Spirit provides raw life energy; the Soul determines how that energy is distributed. This is why no two people are the same, even spiritually. Spirit is one, but Souls are many. The Soul is the principle of individuality, allowing God to experience Himself through infinite expressions. But individuality is a double-edged sword. It enables creativity and love, but also ego and separation. Spirit knows no separation. It is universal unity. The Soul can choose to live as if it is isolated, disconnected from the whole. That choice creates friction called suffering. Suffering is the Soul’s reaction to misalignment with Spirit. When the Soul uses Spirit against divine order, it creates dissonance in its own vibration. This is like a musician playing a perfect instrument but producing a broken melody. The instrument is not at fault, but the result is chaos. This dissonance must be resolved. The Soul cannot discard its past actions; it must face, understand, and transform them. This is purification. Spirit patiently waits, sustaining life while the Soul continues its journey. It never interferes with free will but is always ready to restore harmony. The mind is the bridge. It allows the Soul to interact with both physical and spiritual realms. It is the tool through which the Soul directs Spirit. The mind has two aspects: conscious and subconscious. The subconscious holds the record, and Spirit flows through it to shape reality. When you think, you use Spirit to create mental form. When that form is held with repetition and intensity, the Soul begins to build it into physical experience. Thus the Soul becomes either master of its destiny or slave to desire. Spirit serves mind. Mind serves will. Will is the highest attribute of the Soul. This is the power that directs the Soul toward Spirit or toward matter. In physical life, the Soul often forgets its spiritual nature because the senses are loud and demanding. The body calls for comfort, power, and satisfaction. The Soul, trapped in material illusion, mistakes these demands for its own needs. It uses Spirit to build castles of sand, believing safety exists in what is temporary. But Spirit is eternal. When the body falls away, the Soul sees that everything built through material use of Spirit disappears. Only character remains. Character is the true wealth of the Soul. Every act of kindness refines the Soul. Every act of cruelty thickens it. Spirit does not change. It remains pure light. The Soul either allows that light to pass through or blocks it. This is the difference between grace and struggle. Grace is alignment with Spirit. Struggle is resistance to it. Spirit is the Father. Soul is the Son. The Father gives life. The Son expresses it and returns experience. The purpose of the Soul’s journey is to reach the state: “Not my will, but Thine.” This is not loss of individuality, but its perfection. When the Soul becomes fully transparent to Spirit, it becomes a co-creator with God. Return is inevitable. The longing within is the memory of unity with Spirit. The Soul cannot find rest in impermanence. The Soul experiences death. When the body dies, Spirit withdraws life, and the Soul remains with the results of its journey. In this state, the Soul sees itself clearly. This is judgment—not punishment, but truth. All Souls are governed by cause and effect. What is sown in Spirit is reaped in the Soul. Spirit gives power, but the outcome belongs to the Soul. You are not a human having a spiritual experience. You are a Soul directing divine force in human form. This mastery is the purpose of existence. The example is {...} a state of spiritual awakening, self-realization, or Oneness It is the state of total transparency between Soul and Spirit. This is the goal of every Soul. To reach it, the Soul must direct mind and will toward Spirit rather than matter. It must quiet personality to hear Spirit. This is not passive—it is the work of will. And now the question: You are the architect, builder, and inhabitant of your world. What if your life is the lesson your Soul chose? What if even pain is a teacher? If you cannot see Spirit in others, you cannot see it in yourself. And if you cannot see it in yourself, you are not living—you are merely existing. Spirit is not a reward. It is reality. But the Soul must become capable of holding it. It must be refined until only the pure reflection of the Creator remains. You have the power to change the record. The question is not whether God is with you. The question is whether you are with God. Your mission is not to find Spirit. Your mission is to remove the barriers within the Soul. This is the only work that matters. The door is open. The light is present. The rest is up to you.