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line by line. 
This should cover most questions
that can arise.
It is important for you to FEEL 
if I am a right mentor for you 
before you decide to book a session.  
Please take your time.  
Also I recommend to read my book first:  
Buddha on a Bull: A Practical Approach to Enlightenment. 
This book might give you all you need. 
However, if after reading this book,
you still want to meet,
then you know me well,
and can trust my guidance.

HOW CAN I ASSIST ?

My life experiences and life-long learning brought me to be of service to those who seek Wholeness and Authenticity.  Mostly I work with spiritual seekers, since I myself was one for 25 years.  I developed a method to help integrate and embody spiritual experiences and spiritual awakening in a practical and grounded way to move it right into life, instead of keeping it conceptual and separated. 

At the heart of it is Deep Dive Discovery Process 
— a 2.5-hour alchemical dialogue that will help you to identify the main intent and virtues you came to express in this life.  It is especially useful for those who have no strong direction in life, have lost a sense of meaning, those who are unfulfilled, unsatisfied, stagnating, and in distress. This process helps to ground energies of the spiritual search.  It also helps to clearly see old mind fixations and to start de-conditioning from them.  
A Testimonial (and tons of them if you scroll down the page!):

"The discovery experience with Elena was more powerful and self revealing than anything I have ever done before. It was amazing to me to be able to go so directly to my essence with her, and pull out the real me, like a rabbit out of a hat! It was just at the right time in my life after all the trauma clearing work I've done, and the expansion from the session we did is still ongoing 48 hrs later. Looking forward to seeing where this goes. It is absolutely indescribable...so much energy freed up, and nothing to fix, and so much feeling of true possibility. It just doesn't feel like there are any obstacles to moving forward as myself now, even though I don't know what's ahead."
--Cynthia M. Clingan, MSEd, PCC, Somatic Psychotherapist, Ohio, USA


WHAT IS DE-CONDITIONING ?  

“To be nobody-but-yourself — in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else — means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight.”
~ e. e. cummings

We live from the conditioned responses of the mind that were formed in the first seven years of our lives.  As innocent and open to be conditioned child we pick up all kinds of beliefs from our parents, society, and the environment we were born and live in.  These beliefs only get reinforced and solidified as we live life, and our life become a reflection of the beliefs and stories we hold about ourselves.  To create something new, to become new, to achieve new, we need to part with that baggage, usually part by part, or sometimes all at once.  I help in this rite of passage as an AWAKE human being, as a PROFESSIONAL life coach and as a CATALYTIC mentor.
HOW AWAKE HUMAN ASSIST IN TRANSFORMATION ?

Regardless of where you are, what you do or not do, how you feel, how satisfactory or unsatisfactory your life is, regardless of what you think about yourself,  what people around think of you, I SEE you in the FULLNESS YOU ARE.  I work with you from the space that is beyond personal qualities and personal achievements, from the space of Wholeness that we all ARE. 

My interest especially lay in supporting those who woke up but fell back into forgetfulness. This can show up in so many different ways and any combination of it: doubt, not knowing what I am doing here, no meaning in life, depression, melancholy, feeling alone, feeling stuck, not inspired, tired, no energy, high irritability, feeling shame, hiding from social contact, confused what to do, how to live, how to explain yourself to others, how to change living conditions that does not serve anymore, all kinds of physical conditions, and more.

I will guide you to see the play of Life where you as this unique character participates, consciously or unconsciously.  We will discover your unique qualities you came to play with and offer to the world.  We will discover a deeper and exciting direction for your journey here.  You will ride your own life trajectory with clarity, respect to your role here in this lifetime and have much more understanding and appreciation of the variety of life, making you love and accept people as they are, building true satisfying relationship with yourself and others.


"After my communication with Elena everything felt imbued with clarity, beauty and freshness. A couple of sticky issues dissolved almost instantly; but later, there was also an awareness of the subtler ways that fear seems to manifest in my day to day living without me noticing, I just adapt to it because it is so subtle. But Elena opened my eyes to this pervasive residue of fear and in place of that fear is now warmth and fullness – it is hard to express in words. Elena was warm, direct and fully supportive and most importantly I enjoyed our communication very much. It feels to me as I had 30 years of psychotherapy in a couple of sessions. Huge gratitude to you"
--Sophie Anns, Phd in Psychology, UK
HOW PROFESSIONAL LIFE COACH ASSIST IN TRANSFORMATION ?

I live deeply and study professionally what I am bringing to the table.  I studied in the oldest professional school in USA: Co-Active Coaches Training Institute.  I am also a SYNERGETIC being, it means that I studied all my life different holistic methods of healing, and now they come in me as my own coaching/mentoring method.  This method is to be 100% PRESENT, fully focused on you, and trust what comes in the space.  I hold Masters Degree in Science and 25 years of independent studies in a holistic field.  For the list of different holistic modalities I studied professionally, please refer to my Resume that is posted under "About Elena" menu option.  
"Elena, I am so happy!
This happened so organically and it feels so right.
Thank you for the clarity!
This amazing woman is hiring me on as her assistant and going to mentor me!  She's one of the top 5% of real estate agents in the country!!
She hired me on the spot. I told her I was doing Life coaching and I told her my Life Purpose statement me and you crafted in a session, and that I was looking to get uncomfortable in life to grow. She said she got chills and offered me the position!"

--Stephanie Fossum, real-estate agent, NYC

HOW HUMAN DESIGN ASSIST IN TRANSFORMATION ?

Endorsement of Human Design by spiritual teacher Adyashanti :
"... By unraveling the confusing and paradoxical elements of our unique human design, we can come into a clear understanding of the human vehicle through which our true nature as universal spirit is functioning.”
--Adyashanti

I found Human Design system profoundly beneficial in my own life, and I have been studying this professionally. This is a mentoring session where I synergistically incorporate Human Design, Behavioral psychology and non-dual awareness view.  I am open to work with anyone who still struggle with the old character tendencies. We will look where do you still live conditioned responses. You might be aware of it or not, but nevertheless, it's a driving mechanism in your life. You probably still making incorrect decisions, creating more of the same conditioned life to deal with later. 

Human Design can be the most profound clarifying tool. My way of bringing it is free from intellectual information and technicalities that only will entertain the mind. My intent is to offer you practical way of very simple behavioral modifications you can experiment with, that will lead to notice, understand and let go of conditioned mind tendencies, and overtime lead to correct alignment of energies, freedom, and innate wisdom of individuated consciousness.

Paradoxically, the more we try to change ourselves, the more we prevent change of occurring. On the other hand, the more we allow ourselves to fully experience who we are, the greater the possibility of change.
--Laurence Heller, PHD

HOW CATALYST ASSIST IN TRANSFORMATION ?

Catalyst is the agent, you add a pinch of that in the solution, and you get an alchemic reaction. 💥As a coach/mentor I step into the space just as a client is, vulnerable and ready to be transformed. I noticed that if I resist to submit to the alchemy, I really get it hard, so I learnt to be a true catalyst: impartial, humble, serving the whole, having no fear to be dissolved. Use me.
"This morning I woke up so much more relaxed than I woke up in months! I feel pretty speechless about our session, not understanding what exactly happened, but the message of the body is: "This is Right, This is Correct, This is Good.” I am grateful to have met you and surrender to your precious abilities. I so many times have read words you wrote and felt as if it were my own words I read, as if you wrote my experience. Thank you Elena, and Love you. "

                Anja Boers, Mindfulness & Brain training, Nederlands

July 2021 IMPORTANT UPDATE!
 
Sign up for my Youtube Channel
where I will be answering questions
and talk on various topics that will come up -
every week! Here:
https://www.youtube.com/c/ElenaNezhinsky/videos

Sign Up to small private email list to receive Check Ins from me from time to time and check in back with me, if you feel connected. Here:
On Youtube channel find Complete Humanity Playlist and watch videos from the bottom up, one by one.  They were recorded in June 2020 and aim to help with integration of awakening.  One of them might touch you in a right way and 
RE - alignment happens. Here:
https://youtu.be/a0CiE3bfAUU


Zoom Sessions - Not at this time!

Becoming Authentic Coaching -  2 hours. Anytime you need clarity. You can bring any issue, problem, question, stuck-ness, unsureness, any situation, and we dissect it to the deepest simplest truth that will change you and transform your relationships with yourself and others for the better. Can also be used anytime as a follow-up.  Please contact me for details. 
If you can donate to scholarship for those in need, please scroll down to see how.

"...It feels to me as I had 30 years of psychotherapy 
in a couple of sessions"
Sofie Anns, Phd in Psychology



Deep Dive Discovery Process (2 sessions) - Main session 2.5+ hours +  1.5 hours follow-up session. Beneficial for those who don't have a strong direction in life.  Or perhaps you unsure about yourself, what you are here for,  perhaps you find yourself looking for validation and support often from outside, or maybe you know you are more then you are able to be.  Also beneficial if you can't integrate the spiritual experience and feel dis-joined with the rest of the family, or the world.  Or perhaps you feel there is more to life that you are living, but you don't see the way to be and do differently, or afraid to change.  This session is long and for a reason, we need all the time we need to go really deep in our exploration of your life and you, and create a blueprint who you are here to become in this lifetime.  This is my favorite session, it is truly a journey we will make together, it is very rich and you will benefit from it to the rest of your life.  I only can do one or two of these a week, this requires all of me and beyond, to be of highest service. This is work that I enjoy the most because of it's very positive focus, and at the same time incredible transformative power.  Follow up session included.  4+ hours total in two meetings.  Please contact me for details.
If you can donate to scholarship for those in need, please scroll down to see how.

"Elena's Deep Dive Discovery Process was the best and most amazing coaching I have ever received. This was pure, real and true. She helped me to find the essence of what I truly am. Such a relief to know and feel that. I highly can recommend her session to everyone looking for answers and clarity. You will get that. " 
 Caroline La M, Spiritual Transformation Coaching and Healing, Spain



Living Your Design Guidance -  2 hours. One of the advantages of knowing your own human design is being able to live your unique self, correctly making decisions from where the circumstantial future unfolds,  not to freak out in the times of great chaos today and loose yourself.  In the times of crisis decision making process must be correct, otherwise you will find yourself in an incorrect for your life purpose environment, involved with incorrect for you people, in random circumstances. There are infinite possibilities to act in the moment, which one is more correct for you, do you know? Are you still making decisions from the head space? From fear? From avoiding conflicts? From trying to hurry up? From the ego? From the place of feeling not enough? And so on...think about it, ponder how you actually make important decisions that shape your life, how you write your story. One line in the story opens up the whole chapter, are you sure you want to write and live out that very chapter? The thinking is like multidimensional fractal that takes you every moment to a next fork in the road, you can be lost if you follow your thoughts, especially if you follow them for important decisions. I do all kinds of mentorship/coaching within a human psyche and beyond, and one of the offering is based on Human Design system of de-conditioning the mind.  It is especially focused on how to move in life in a correct way, not based on existing mind conditioning, and how therefore to make correct decisions and de-condition old patterns of the mind.  Not available at this time separately, but included in Deep Dive Discovery Process (see above).


Donate to scholarship fund 

Your contribution will allow someone who can't pay regular fee to have a session with me. I can't accommodate that myself fully, I need help. Please consider to help your fellow traveler who have no resources, but need help. I will notify you when I did a session funded by you, but without disclosing the recipient's name. Hope this will speek to some of you out there who can share with others in a tangible way. Please use buddhaonabull@gmail.com on PayPal to contribute. Thank you for your kindness and generosity.


Cryptocurrencies Payments or Donations
I accept some crypto currencies for session fees and donations.  Here is the list of addresses where you can send a payment.  Please write me an email that you sent it and for what, so we can either set a meeting or I can apply the donation for a scholarship.  You don't have to write to me if you sent a donation and you want to remain anonymous.  In this case I want to say right now that I very much appreciate your generosity.  I do MOST OF MY WORK for a fraction of the cost or free of charge, and donations really help to continue this work and be available to people for guidance without financial restrictions. 

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Testimonials

"My wish is for people to keep an open mind and give this a shot, especially by someone like Elena who has been one of the most open, honest, transparent, courageous, real and most authentic beings I've seen... What better role model than that can one be? And for others to learn from?"

Dianne O’Neil, Canada

"I have had a look at description of your Deep De-conditioning Process, and am still not entirely sure what exactly it would entail, but that isn’t important to me. You helped me enormously before and I would like to work with you again in whatever way you think will be most beneficial.I just like hanging with you, to be honest, and good things just seem to happen!"

Matt, UK

"'Elena's Deep Dive Discovery Process was the best and most amazing coaching I have ever received.  This was pure, real and true.  She helped me to find the essence of what I truly am.  Such a relief to know and feel that.  I highly can recommend her session to everyone looking for answers and clarity. You will get that.  She is a true and authentic gift and her work is worth every penny!"

Caroline La M, Spiritual Transformation Coaching and Healing, Andalusia, Spain

"It seems my life just changed on a dime....I Have to say that this is probably the most pivotal thing that's happened to me since awakening in 2012"

Diane O'Neil, Toronto, Canada

"Elena, my session with you was completely unlike any coaching session I have ever had. In your perfectly gentle and uncompromising way, you managed to bring to light some things that I had never looked at. Instead of just examining the things that I wanted to address, you had me look at the one who was trying to set the agenda. Instead of looking at my story, you asked the perfect questions and then gave me the space to articulate and then see the persistent deep background stuff that drives my story. I am so used to it that I briefly felt a bit uncomfortable not carrying around all my crap, and then I just felt lighter, and very, very quiet. What a gift, thank you!”

Richard Redmond, Real-estate finance, California, USA

"'I'm a whole person and I can sense everything. It makes sense now what the big deal is about being alive!!! Right now I'm like a 5 year old in a 50 year old body 😄 gratitude is effortless, pleasure is effortless, almost can't contain it all...Thank you! Sometimes I feel like I'm right on your heels, following your footsteps, just a breath behind you in the process!❤"

A client, UK

"With joy, laughter and playfulness Elena took me through a wonderful process to help me synthesize what are core values for me and what my life purpose is in the next phase of my life. The simplicity of the process allows Elena’s natural intuitive and psychic gifts to come into play as she led me down different paths to ensure she had a complete understanding of what was going on for me at this time. Using this information she supported me in a process to get clarity of six fundamental, non-negotiable, values I want to have in all my relationships. A clear set of guidelines of what I want to bring to the table and what I desire to create with other. The work to define life purpose through creation of a personal mantra equally full of ease and flow – and it captured precisely why I am here. The sharing of energy during the conversation equally lovely and I left feeling full of love and light. Such a gift you are Elena. Much love, Fergus"

Fergus D. Senior Business Executive, Vancouver, Canada

"If you feel stuck in a rut and have that desire to get unstuck with Elena Nezhinsky, do it! It's worth so much more than I imagined it might be, and I feel transformed by the session! A week ago and it's alive here 💕💕💕Freedom deepened into some serious grounding and body awareness as my compass for living from My true essence. It does not belong to me I cannot own it. It is truly humbling and I get to dance it’s dance. ❤️❤️❤"

J., Colchester, Essex UK

"'I'm so happy that you worked with me on a couple of occasions using your expertise in human design, as well as many other gifts you have, that helped change my life forever. Thank you. "

a client

“I'm feeling so connected to you...having so many openings since we last spoke - freedom! And can't find the motivation to write about it. Just feels so good to be free! It's nice to feel you out there being free also.”

A.

“Еlena⁩, thank you for sharing your stories. Thank you for your generous heart, your power and your childlike spirit which are so refreshing! The poem and wisdom you shared with me, sister, landed. 💜🙏🏼”

Jess, Life Coach, New Zealand

"Hi Elena. 
It’s been an awesome week since our session and it’s profound effects are so grounding!
I am hyper aware of what I am doing and if it supports my fragrance of being...
My boundaries are tighter and I’m much more in touch with myself again in such an easy flowing way! My friends who know me say how accurate it is, the metaphor for me we came to by the end...Such a gift to reconnect to myself, it makes it easier to find and easier to remember now... I am once again much lighter and brighter .....You really are a star, thank you so much for helping me to remember that I am a star too…With love from the depths of my heart!" ❤️

Jane Hamilton,
Essex, UK

"Time with you on zoom was very unique. Simple. Light. Huge…Our Discovery session felt like spontaneous meeting of essential parts. We came together in a playful date, full of joy from loving, trusting, and looking together into the same, and feeling the same, and knowingly sharing this bliss of togetherness. I realize that it wasn’t only spontaneous on your side. Thatthere’s a mastery of getting there, of focusing us, tuning me back to myself.  As a result I met you openly and trusted to be a wide-opened child. You, looking at me with curiosity, playfulness, kindness. You being Love and focusing that at me, inviting me there.And me hearing that. And us sharing that. I am bursting with happiness all day. Great session, thank you! Love."

Elena Eydelnant
New York, USA

"I so appreciate your coaching approach, Elena.It was relaxing, enjoyable, and actually a lot of fun  to go through the process of discovery the character I am here to be in this life. With your facilitation, the values and description came easily – and so clearly – to me. In the time since our first meeting, the image of my true character has traveled closely with me. I notice that when I am not in my true essence in the world, my actions or behaviors might be out of line and can feel burdensome or heavy. More and more, I am noticing how essential it is to bring my values and the knowledge of who I am here to be into the various facets of my life: personal relationships, work relationships, and the actual work I do. I have a better sense of whether this person or that project are a good fit for my character.  I’m not bending over backwards or force-fitting myself into relationships or projects that don’t line up.
The work you and I do together is a guiding, steadying force in me right now, and I don’t really have the right words to tell you all the ways and how much I appreciate it. I will say that I absolutely love laughing with you!"

Jane Murphy,
Writing coach, Editor
Portland, USA

"Working with Elena last week was a real delight!  
Our conversation flowed as we talked over the “tight knots” I saw in
my life.  Elena took these contradictions I’d been living
with for so long, reframed them and cast them in a fresh, new light.  
What had looked like problems are now open doors!"

Dan T.
retired businessmen, Switzerland

"Elena, many thanks for the effort and patience, this has been the most profound opening!"

Gads Ittah,
Long time Vipassana meditator

"Elena, Our time together was very valuable for me !!
I really appreciate your love, clarity, wisdom and directness." 
"There continues to bea cascading effect of transformationfor me."

Stephen Metcalf
Coach/Healer
Seattle, Washington

I woke about 4am and I couldn't get back to sleep, the words we came up with playing in my mind, and then I realized that my mind was quiet! How beautiful it was, I lay there enjoying the stillness for some time and then I fell asleep again. It still feels that the peace is with me, and I am getting on with my day.
What a beautiful unexpected gift.
Thank you, thank you.

Patricia H., UK

"Dear Elena, talking to you was so releasing, relieving, freeing. Amazing how life works when just surrendering to it. A little bit scary, but truly amazing and freeing. Thank you"

A client

"Dear Elena .....You "zoom"-in fairly quickly onto getting to the point, clearing away 'peripheral' concerns.... and before I knew it, we were laughing together! Very artful of you! 🌸💗🌷💗🌸   Thank you so much for the gift of your time ... sharing an ethereal embrace with you..."

Sandra Somerville,
musician,
Queensland, Australia

"Elena, I admire the courage to share your own journey and the ways you show up in the world. Your personal words to me were some of the most impactful anyone has ever said.  Thank you."

Todd Buterbaugh, Executive Coach, USA

"Elena! I feel Magic is probably the best word for it. An amazing thing happened that was so lucid and momentary, as I fell asleep. You appeared suddenly, peering down at me, somewhat through a lens. It was only a split second but I was aware of extreme intelligence in your expression and purpose...some things started to change... on their own...and quite a bit. You seem to have extraordinary range and focus!"

John S.
Queensland, Australia

This woman has amazing Patience!

S., Arizona USA

"After my communication with Elena everything felt imbued with clarity, beauty and freshness. A couple of sticky issues dissolved almost instantly; but later, there was also an awareness of the subtler ways that fear seems to manifest in my day to day living without me noticing, I just adapt to it because it is so subtle. But Elena opened my eyes to this pervasive residue of fear and in place of that fear is now warmth and fullness – it is hard to express in words. Elena was warm, direct and fully supportive and most importantly I enjoyed our communication very much. It feels to me as I had 30 years of psychotherapy in a couple of sessions. Huge gratitude to you"

Sophie Anns, Phd in Psychology

"Thank you Elena. I had been stuck with a kind of apathy and needed a reminder of my dreams and talents. I think the belief that held things stuck was about there being no others, no me therefore no one to help. My body was reflecting this outlook ,playing havoc with my nervous system. Elena pointed out what was at the core. The energy was locked down and love for life and how that would flow as me was not being honored. I am a therapist and I sometimes need therapy when perspective is lost ! I feel rejuvenated and motivated to start again and embrace the fears of failure and the quirks of the body. Much love"

Ruth Nuttal
Therapist/Singer/Songwriter, UK

"Elena worked with me for just 3 hours in a process of discovery of my authentic character, and using Human Design, and brought clarity into my being in the most profound way! I was so deeply impacted. Elena, does not waste words or time. She is direct, clear and very concise. It has been just a few days since we did this work together and I have a completely new outlook on life!! Her love and wisdom still supports me. Thank you Elena. You're the bomb!!!I love you ❤️❤️❤️" 

Diane O’Neill, retired businesswoman, Newfoundland, Canada

"Elena was ready, she connected and she listened with all her being…  her openness naturally led me to a coming forth that was unexpected and very useful.  Elena probed and challenged as appropriate and kept the session on track so that it was truly about me in this moment and not some fantasy me.  She gave helpful feedback and her memory of a session we had some years ago was surprising and supportive.  Elena’s many years of experience made the time together of insightful value…."

Pip Nichols,
End of Life Guide, New Zeland

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