About This Work
About This Work
These are my own musings about the work.
They are for you to read and FEEL to help you to know
They are for you to read and FEEL to help you to know
if I am a right mentor for you.
There musings are for abstract mind,
if you have more logical mind,
scroll to the bottom,
there are more clear and detailed explanations of my services:
"All about my sessions"
We all have our unique tone, unique vibration to participate here in this life, the unique song to sing in this lifetime. Please do not take on someone else's song, there is no song better then your own, truly. You know it, but your vocal cords are so tight from trying to sing the song that is not yours, that nothing comes out, and you are silently listening to others who sing theirs, who are fully living themselves, while you are hiding, unfulfilled, frustrated, secretly bitter, uninspired, and unhappy. I help with finding your own music you came to play here. It is a wonderful journey, a process of re-discovery yourself, an alchemical meeting, life-giving journey back home, to relief, clarity, ease, and sweetness
by Elena January 2020
I met a lot of people one on one by this time, and I want to say that to HEAL means to become REAL. Not more spiritual, not more awake, not more evolved, no. It is becoming real. And here is where many have no idea what 'real' is. So how you supposed to heal yourself if you don't even know yourself really? Oh, yes, I know we all here seeking for transcendence and "true nature', I even wrote a book about it (check the Books page)! But my next book is actually about becoming real. While I am writing this book about my own homecoming, use me to deep dive with you to find realness in you. I have plenty of testimonials around this website about an amazing work we come together for, and which is never the same, because everyone is absolutely unique. I have a loose structure for the process, but no agenda or any expectations. I am open to listen to you and to pick up the strands of real you and then we weave them together into a clear vision of why you are here in this particular body and mind, what you are here to be and do, so you can fulfill your mission and this will bring you to full re-mission from any psychological or physical illness...
by Elena, December 18 2019
"Love yourself" offering from the wise ones is underestimated, and almost impossible with all the mind conditioning that still drives self-hatred self-doubt, un-worthiness, looking up to others. This is the prime focus of my work now with people. Not mind transcendence, but self-love. Loving yourself, seeing yourself, recognizing yourself, feeling comfortable in your own skin. And we have no clue what it is really. We look for awakening as a transcendence, because we dislike ourselves so much, because we suffer to live in our own form, we just want to drop it all together! It doesn't work this way. Until you drop this body completely, you are bound to ride in this suit here. You can't drop the suit, you need to find your ROLE here in this life, and in this very suit. Recognize your role, and serve what you are here came to live. This is different kind of awakening, fully embodied clarity of who you are here.
by Elena, January 22 2020
If you would see your relationships (present and past) through the prism of what you here to be in this life, and you see are they correct for you or not, and exactly why, you would be astonished how simple it is to know who is correct for you or not. When you have clarity, you are not at the mercy of old relationship dynamic, not a slave of mind's conditioning to stay in the relationship that doesn't serve you, or even them. And the best of all, it doesn't even require having to do anything about it, life will adjust itself. It only requires awareness of why you are here and what you are here to be in this life. By being yourself fully you will avoid relationships that are not yours to be in and the stuck of the old ones with be re-arranged. I assist in a process of recognizing your role in life, your essence, your virtues, how to make correct decisions as yourself, how to start living who you came here to live
by Elena, January 21 2020
You are fooling yourself
if you think that you will live in bliss and transcendence when you wake up, because it is NOT natural, these are mind states of higher order. But just like other mind states, ordinary mind states or dream states, they are impermanent. The natural way of being is fluidity in living what is present to experience now, without trying to hold on to any of it. Then life is living you, using the mind as an instrument when it's needed, not mind guiding what to live and to experience. When life is a natural flow without preferences of the mind, we feel rest even in the middle of an action, we feel simple happiness, even there is no visible cause for elation, we feel grounded in ourselves, without being egotistic. One of the intents of Deep Dive Discovery process I do with people is to take preoccupation of the mind that too long was focused on the spiritual awakening and turn it to the direct (sensory) and indirect (imaginary) experience, and show the mind how these two experiences are as valid as transcendent experiences, and how imbalance of these three in a process of becoming authentic in their life makes one stuck.
by Elena November 23 2019
by Elena November 23 2019
What I like about my work with people is that I do not need to point to them where they are stuck, I just listen to their stories, for long time, from different times in their lives. I ask different unrelated questions and confuse their clever mind to the point it just give up to sensor what and how they say. And I write down their words. I have no judgment for anything they say, I am witnessing it right there with them, in a context of the fascinating journey in consciousness, and I see and feel what is that in that story was essential, what was the thread through the whole life that kept playing out itself, regardless of the circumstances, and most fascinating, deep under all the acquired, and sometimes very thick conditioning! This underlying essence is what they are here to be, makes them individual without grasping to the form.
by Elena June 5 2019
by Elena June 5 2019
You should see those eyes and hear the gasp from recognition of themselves, and a huge relief they feel, and excitement to have a chance to start again with themselves, live fully, lovingly, present to who they are. It's like life has vibrancy and colors again, and its all fun again, rightful direction! And surely there is also challenge not to slip into conditioned ideas of themselves, but now they have a clear view of their virtues that they came to live and express, but never had full permission for. Suddenly there are energies available to assist to be who they are, suddenly no depression, and no boredom, no sadness and hopelessness, suddenly no tensions, and they feel amazingly free and in joy to be who they are, unapologetically.
by Elena June 4 2019
All about my sessions:
Deep Dive Discovery Process
- this is my favorite meeting with people, it is a Journey, a Dive, an exploration, re-remembrance. We focus on what is important, what worked, where was joy and wellbeing, where it was correct, authentic and true through the life, then we create a clear view of what this particular life is about and what they came here to live. This process is beneficial for ALL, but especially for those who don't have a strong direction in life. Or perhaps you unsure about yourself, what you are here for, perhaps you find yourself looking for validation and support often from outside, or maybe you know you are more then you are able to be. Also beneficial if you can't integrate the spiritual experience and feel dis-joined with the rest of the family, or the world. Or perhaps you feel there is more to life that you are living, but you don't see the way to be and do differently, or afraid to change. This session is long and for a reason, we need all the time we need to go really deep in our exploration of your life and you, and create a blueprint who you are here to become in this lifetime. It is truly a journey we will make together, it is very rich and you will benefit from itto the rest of your life. I only can do at most two of these a week, this requires all of me and beyond, to be of highest service. It is usually 2,5 hours, sometimes little longer, plan accordingly. After this journey together we will meet in a week again to check in.
"Elena's Deep Dive Discovery Process was the best and most amazing coaching I have ever received. This was pure, real and true. She helped me to find the essence of what I truly am. Such a relief to know and feel that. I highly can recommend her session to everyone looking for answers and clarity. You will get that. She is a true and authentic gift and her work is worth every penny!”
Caroline M, Life Coach, Writer, Spain
"Elena's Deep Dive Discovery Process was the best and most amazing coaching I have ever received. This was pure, real and true. She helped me to find the essence of what I truly am. Such a relief to know and feel that. I highly can recommend her session to everyone looking for answers and clarity. You will get that. She is a true and authentic gift and her work is worth every penny!”
Caroline M, Life Coach, Writer, Spain
Deep De-Conditioning Coaching
- beneficial for those who looking to live not out of conditioned response, but from their own being, from their own deep knowing. This will help you to discern what is yours and what is not, it will help to de-condition mind from incrusted old beliefs and ideas, it will help to know how to make correct decisions in life without listening to what the mind says or asking others for their opinion. Based of Human Design system (I will create and examine your human design chart before the session) and Behavioral Psychology. I am bringing this very uniquely to who I am, no information for mind entertainment, just exactly what is needed to start radical de-conditioning, and nothing I bring that I didn't live myself. This is 2 hours plus we will meet together in a week again to check in.
Endorsement of Human Design system from Spiritual Teacher, Non-duality Teacher Adyashanti:
"... By unraveling the confusing and paradoxical elements of our unique human design, we can come into a clear understanding of the human vehicle through which our true nature as universal spirit is functioning.”
"My wish is for people to keep an open mind and give this a shot, especially by someone like Elena who has been one of the most open, honest, transparent, courageous, real and most authentic beings I've seen on social media. What better role model than that can one be? And for others to learn from?"
Endorsement of Human Design system from Spiritual Teacher, Non-duality Teacher Adyashanti:
"... By unraveling the confusing and paradoxical elements of our unique human design, we can come into a clear understanding of the human vehicle through which our true nature as universal spirit is functioning.”
"My wish is for people to keep an open mind and give this a shot, especially by someone like Elena who has been one of the most open, honest, transparent, courageous, real and most authentic beings I've seen on social media. What better role model than that can one be? And for others to learn from?"
Dianne O'Neil, community leader
The Bomb - Personal meetings are very catalytic, and usually ONE meeting like Deep Dive Discovery Process or Deep De-conditioning coaching session is sufficient to kick-start the deep transformation to your true energetic, physical and psychological alignment. Combining two of them in one package to work with me brings utmost clarity to life now and reveals why things happen the way they happen, which might stop the old dynamics responsible in the continuation of old behaviors immediately, or this happens overtime. The life is not the same after, you will absolutely transform into an authentic being. For those who understand how important is personal correct alignment at these times and is willing to live who they uniquely are with no more delays.
Becoming Authentic Coaching
Stand along shorter sessions, anytime you need clarity. You can bring any issue, problem, question, stuck-ness, unsureness, any situation, and we dissect it to the deepest simplest truth that will change you and transform your relationships with yourself and others for the better.
"...It feels to me as I had 30 years of psychotherapy
"...It feels to me as I had 30 years of psychotherapy
in a couple of sessions"
Sofie Anns, Phd in Psychology
What The F*ck is Going On With Me Coaching
-This is 2020 Winter Special. I noticed people don't really understand what's happening and WTF
is a general theme right now for many people. We can talk about this chaos inside of you without any judgment, and create more clarity and relief.
Family Constellations Session - For anyone who need to clear up any ancestral conditioning that still self-perpetuating, presenting as limitations, unhealthy dynamics in relationships, illness, addictions, children issues and etc... In result of our coming together you accept what is yours and release what does not belong to you to aline energies in a more correct way to lighten up the load, to open up new doors. This is profound work of a great depth.
Family Constellations Session - For anyone who need to clear up any ancestral conditioning that still self-perpetuating, presenting as limitations, unhealthy dynamics in relationships, illness, addictions, children issues and etc... In result of our coming together you accept what is yours and release what does not belong to you to aline energies in a more correct way to lighten up the load, to open up new doors. This is profound work of a great depth.
"Unconsciously, we relive our mother’s anxiety. We repeat our father’s disappointments. We replicate the failed relationships of our parents and grandparents. Just as we inherit our eye color and blood type, we also inherit the residue from traumatic events that have taken place in our family. Illness, depression, anxiety, unhappy relationships and financial challenges can all be forms of this unconscious inheritance"
~ Mark Wolyn, director of The Family Constellation Institute in San Francisco.
I was certified in 2014 to lead Family Constellations by Bert Hellinger Institute USA. All my work is rooted in non-dual perspective, within the essential understanding of who we are, I synergistically use different modalities to aid energetic and psychological alignment . Right now I am called in my heart to add this type of work along with other work I offer. Fee is 250$